(Follow Me-R.S Personal Study Guide)
Instructor: Jane Higgs
2Nephi 4:28
Feelings of guilt can be useful and constructive and can move us forward toward repentance and the Lord's forgiveness.
Everyone is familiar with the wail of a siren. They often signify danger. We have a similar warning signal, our conscience indicates to us when we are going down a wrong path these warning signals(are suppose to help us improve not to push us into despair)
2 things we must remember about guilt:
1. Feelings of guilt for sin should move us to repentance
Elder Marion D Hanks commented on 2 Nephi 4:28 and said the following:
"Nephi understood that true remorse is a gift from God, not a curse, but a blessing. True remorse involves sorrow and suffering; but the sorrow is purposeful, constructive, cleansing, the godly sorrow that worketh repentance to salvation, and not the sorrow of the world"
2. We should not continue to feel guilt after we have repented
Elder Scott said the following:
"Can't you see that to continue to suffer for sins, when there has been proper repentance and forgiveness of the Lord, is not prompted by the Savior but by the master of deceit, whose goal has always been to bind and enslave the children of our father in heaven?...If you, through poor judgment, were to cover your shoes with mud, would you leave them that way? of course not. You would cleanse and restore them. Would you then gather the residue of mud and place it in an envelope to show others the mistake that you made? No. Neither should you continue to relive forgiven sin"
The following questions may help us evaluate our individual needs to resolve guilt feelings:
- Have I repented of any past sins? Do I need to confess a sin or make a restitution to someone I have offended? have I asked foriveness of the Lord?
- If Necessary, have I soulght the help of my bishop and followed his counsel?
- Do I feel the love of the Lord for me?